Domestic Abuse Resources for Young People

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What Is Domestic Abuse? (Definition and Information)

If you’re worried about how someone is treating you or someone at home, you’re not alone. This page explains what domestic abuse is and how to get help.

Domestic abuse is when someone threatens, bullies, or hurts someone in their family or their relationship. Sometimes it’s called domestic violence, but someone doesn’t need to physically hurt you to be abusive.

Abuse has happened in lots of families, and anyone can go through it. It might not always be obvious, and if someone is using bullying or violence to get what they want, that’s domestic abuse.

Types of Domestic Abuse

It can include:

Such as hitting, kicking, punching, pushing, or pulling hair. It can also include throwing or breaking things.

This might include threatening to hurt you, someone in your family, or a pet. It can also include threats about money, food, or basic needs.

This includes being pressured or forced into sexual activity, being made to watch sexual content, or being asked to send or receive sexual messages or images.

This could mean not being allowed to spend money, or not being given enough for essentials like food, clothing, or baby items.

For example, being stopped from going to school or work, being told what to wear, or being prevented from seeing friends or family.

This includes being harmed or punished for something seen as unacceptable by a family or community, or being pressured or forced into a marriage.

Even if the abuse is not happening directly to you, it can still affect you. It is always okay to ask for help. You are not alone, and support is available. You can always talk to us.

Your Rights and The Law

If you are under 16 or over 16, you can still get help and protection.

The law can help to:

Even if you are under 16, it is still against the law for someone to abuse you in a relationship. Support is still available.

Whatever is happening, it’s important to get support.

If you’re not sure who to talk to, you can speak to someone confidentially.

What is ChatHealth?

Would you like to speak to a trusted adult?

ChatHealth is a secure and confidential text messaging service for young people aged 11 to 19 in East Riding.

Our team can help with all sorts of issues such as bullying, being active, healthy relationships, sexual health, alcohol, drugs and much more. 

Text ChatHealth - it's easy, just text hello!

Texts are usually replied to within one working day. ChatHealth is available Monday - Friday 9am - 4.30pm (excluding Bank Holidays).

07507332891

Texts are usually replied to within one working day and cost the same as a standard text or will come out of the your contract message allowance.

ChatHealth is available Monday to Friday 09.00 to 16:30 (excluding bank holidays). Out of hours, anyone who texts the service will receive an automated message with advice on where to get help if their question is urgent.

Support for Young People

These organisations offer advice, support and information about domestic abuse and relationships.

Young Minds

Mental health support and advice for young people.

Childline

Free, confidential support for young people about anything worrying you, including domestic abuse.

Love Respect

Free, confidential support for young people about anything worrying you, including domestic abuse.

NSPCC

Information about domestic abuse, including signs and how to stay safe.

The Children's Society

Advice and information about domestic abuse for young people.

SafeLives

Guidance on supporting yourself or others affected by domestic abuse.

Safety Apps and Helplines

Bright Sky

A domestic abuse support app with advice and ways to find help safely.

Download or learn more

Hollie Guard

A personal safety app that can send alerts if you feel unsafe.

Download or learn more

Strut Safe

A phone line you can call if you feel unsafe walking home.

Visit Strut Safe

Your Rights and The Law

Clare’s Law

Lets you ask the police if a partner may have a history of domestic abuse.

Request information

Sarah’s Law

Lets you find out if someone has a record of offences against children.

Learn more

Specialist Support

LGBTQ+ support

Galop offers support for LGBTQ+ people experiencing abuse or violence.

Visit Galop

Support for men

ManKind provides support for male victims of domestic abuse.

Visit ManKind

Honour-based abuse support

Karma Nirvana supports people at risk of honour-based abuse or forced marriage.

Visit Karma Nirvana

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